Understanding the Restorative Difference
Learn more about restorative approaches and why they make all the difference in finding resolutions and working together in good ways.
RE·STOR·ATIVE
adjective - /rəˈstôrədiv/ - Having the ability to restore health, strength, or a feeling of well-being.
First, it is important to acknowledge the Indigenous roots of restorative approaches
Settlers are not the ones who created restorative methods and it is vital that settlers working in this way take the time to recognize and appreciate the Indigenous foundations of these methods. Indigenous communities have used relational ways of knowing and healing for millennia and it is only in recent history that settlers have adopted and adapted this framework. This expansion is in part because settler processes have not been particularly helpful in the area of healing.
In fact, many of the restorative processes and programs we see today were explicitly created by and with the support of Indigenous folks. Many Indigenous communities have generously supported the creation of grassroots restorative justice programs, for example, as a direct response to the disproportionate incarceration of Indigenous Peoples in the colonial justice system. We must recognize the significance of these offerings in light of the dark history of colonization that we all share.
In Nova Scotia, Mi’kmaw communities continue this tradition of generosity and knowledge-sharing today. While Indigenous communities have approaches and traditions as unique as the nations themselves, there are common threads across the globe showing that Indigenous communities focus not on isolation and punishment (as settlers tend to do) and instead on healing and connection with one another. Indigenous communities centre relationships - our relationships to ourselves, each other, and the earth.
Do you know the Nations, treaties, and languages of your territory? Learn more about this here.
Restorative Approach is grateful to Indigenous communities for their continued ingenuity, resilience, and resistance. Our work mostly happens in K’jipuktuk (Halifax) on the unceded (never surrendered) ancestral lands of the Mi’kmaw and Maliseet Peoples. This must never be forgotten, for our richness and wealth is thanks to the land we call home. We are all treaty people.
So, what exactly is a restorative approach?
It is all about relationships.
The quality of our relationships is what matters most. A restorative approach is:
dignified
We are all inherently worthy and deserve dignity. There are no “bad” people, only bad choices.
connected
A restorative approach appreciates our interconnectedness. We are hardwired to connect and must prioritize this human truth. How we feel about things matters.
inclusive
A restorative method seeks meaningful participation from anyone who was, is, or will be impacted.
holistic
The macro contexts and causes matter. We all do things based on many factors and a restorative view zooms out to see the big picture.
responsive and flexible
Restorative approaches are contextual, adjusting as things change. Being restorative means responding (instead of reacting) to the present (not past) state of affairs.
peace-making
Responsibility and accountability are the key ingredients when it comes to finding restorative outcomes. When we have honest conversations we can make peace.
free of judgment
Only you know your truth and a restorative lens appreciates this fact. A restorative conversation fosters stronger understanding.
forward-focused
A restorative approach looks ahead and asks what we need to move forward in a good way.
A restorative approach is all about
VOICE + CHOICE
Key pieces:
CONFLICT IS AN OPPORTUNITY
Not in the sense that conflict is celebrated or easy, but in the sense that conflict is natural and when it happens it’s an opportunity for growth and understanding. We all make mistakes, and how we respond to those moments matters a lot.
FINDING RESOLUTION BUILDS TRUST
When we move through challenging times in a good way, we come out of those moments stronger than before. Working through our differences together builds trust, connection, understanding, and healing. A strong team can weather storms together.
HARM RIPPLES OUT BUT SO DOES HEALING
Whether intentional or accidental, harmful situations tend to have many unanticipated consequences. One harmful incident can impact an entire community. Thankfully healing also has unanticipated positive impacts. When we as individuals heal, it spreads outward in powerful ways.
A restorative response is a better way forward, shifting:
From legal liability mindset to taking responsibility and accountability
From conflict in governance to a connected team and community
From risk management to accepting vulnerability within and beyond the organization
From protection and defence to responding compassionately and transparently
From damage control to resolutions that are felt and formalized for all parties
From unhealthy workplace culture to (re)building trust, empathy and compassion
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